Email communication with a former "friend"/boy or girlfriend/lover, whatever you want to call it........is it considered:
Cheating on your significant other:angry:..... or not cheating:?
Pretty broad huh...so what DO you think:D :?

Email communication with a former "friend"/boy or girlfriend/lover, whatever you want to call it........is it considered:
Cheating on your significant other:angry:..... or not cheating:?
Pretty broad huh...so what DO you think:D :?

It really depends. It's a case to case basis. If you're still communicating with that certain someone knowing that you have your man/woman around and not telling them, it simply means that your're up to no good. All it takes is honesty! :D

dun din papunta un................

question is...why do you still want to communicate with him/her? its a mild case of cheating pero ganun na rin yon, you wont wait that it will blown out of proportion...better be a peace with your present and forget that past, baka mapukaw lang ang di na dapat...

Tama si cornelia forget the past.
Kung wala ka masamang intention dapat alam ng partner mo yan.
Wag sayangin ang panahon sa nakaraan na.
Mabilis gumanti ang karma.

one thing leads to another.

ano yan friends......with benefits:)
meron man o wala kng gnagawa eh sa tinging ng karamihan
meron kayong on the side....

if i'd met/talked/emailed my ex's.. i'm making sure that i tell my partner after.. its better to be honest para ganun din yun partner ko sa akin...

one thing leads to another.

Thanks you guys!!!! You all helped me alot on this one:clap: . And you guys are right, one thing will soon lead to another. I thought that starting a communication with a former friend, without malice involved will be okay...since email (as I thought) won't affect anything nor hurt anybody. Confession...confession...confession....my former friend is a member of this club/federation. It has been a while mula noong last naming comm, but I guess once again you guys are right...let the past be the past. But the truth is, I really just wanted to say hi. That was all. Again thank you. FYI i haven't contacted him yet, I wanted to get as much advice as I can, and I am surely very satisfied.

IMHO,

If one thing will lead to another then I guess the relationship is weak.

Must I always tell my better half everything I am about to do before I can do it. Must I report my actions always. Sounds like a Police State relationship. Does not one feel asphyxiated??? Choke, choke, choke...death!

I do not see anything wrong in communicating with an ex. A strong relationship is one built on trust and open communication with each other.

Problem with relationships from my point of view is one's inability to make the other feel secure. Abuse - selfishness by one weakens the bond and often breaks it.

Safe ride.

God Bless.

IMHO,

If one thing will lead to another then I guess the relationship is weak.

Must I always tell my better half everything I am about to do before I can do it. Must I report my actions always. Sounds like a Police State relationship. Does not one feel asphyxiated??? Choke, choke, choke...death!

I do not see anything wrong in communicating with an ex. A strong relationship is one built on trust and open communication with each other.

Problem with relationships from my point of view is one's inability to make the other feel secure. Abuse - selfishness by one weakens the bond and often breaks it.

Safe ride.

God Bless.

eh papano kahit love nyo ang isat isa if the other is possessive? it will start another world war...kaya iwas na lang...

eh papano kahit love nyo ang isat isa if the other is possessive? it will start another world war...kaya iwas na lang...

I'll drink to that!!!

I'll drink to that!!!


hindi mo naman masasabi na makitid utak ng partner mo....it is just so natural na may selos na mangyayari...

and where have you been black hawk? buti naman you've pass by here sa humble tambayan namin...:O

eh papano kahit love nyo ang isat isa if the other is possessive? it will start another world war...kaya iwas na lang...

Possessive is not destructive to a relationship. A cure to one's being possessive is to make sure she knows you love her and she is all that matters to you.

Destructive is obsessive. This is strangulation and destructive to a healthy relationship.

'Iwas na lang' for me is not a solution. To disregard another's feelings is demeaning to the other - this is not love. Confront the problem together and resolve the issues before the day ends.

Safe ride.

God Bless.

Possessive is not destructive to a relationship. A cure to one's being possessive is to make sure she knows you love her and she is all that matters to you.

Destructive is obsessive. This is strangulation and destructive to a healthy relationship.

'Iwas na lang' for me is not a solution. To disregard another's feelings is demeaning to the other - this is not love. Confront the problem together and resolve the issues before the day ends.

Safe ride.

God Bless.

i have to get real...why should i communicate with my past bf's if that person is not important to me anymore? why should i e-mail or text him? why should i ask if he is okay? he had a life of his own...and i had mine...we had our times before and it ends there...period...

Possessive is not destructive to a relationship. A cure to one's being possessive is to make sure she knows you love her and she is all that matters to you.

Destructive is obsessive. This is strangulation and destructive to a healthy relationship.

'Iwas na lang' for me is not a solution. To disregard another's feelings is demeaning to the other - this is not love. Confront the problem together and resolve the issues before the day ends.




True...

Not "iwas"...I'd rather have you "face" it...

i have to get real...why should i communicate with my past bf's if that person is not important to me anymore? why should i e-mail or text him? why should i ask if he is okay? he had a life of his own...and i had mine...we had our times before and it ends there...period...

I agree. What had passed is past and should remain there.

Safe ride.

God Bless.

...however let us just appreciate our past for this made us what we are today...:)

@Ms bhengfun,
I think you should not communicate with your "ex" unless it's for legal matters. What is past is past, everything should be buried 6 feet under the ground. It's not healthy saying "hi" to your your ex except if it is by accident. You do not say hi on purpose, you would rather say "hmmmp!". Get it?

...however let us just appreciate our past for this made us what we are today...:)

Totally agree :D

...however let us just appreciate our past for this made us what we are today...:)

so true...................:C

Extramarital relationship? womanizing? white lies?
lie/cheat?

bakit kailangan pang magkaron ng ganon?
what if you're married or living w/ somebody special. would you tell him/her what you did?

tell me your thoughts/ideas/opinions?

pang cosmopolitan ito ah...fhm?

IMHO - you have to always weigh the consequences of your actions ;)

LAHAT NG BAWAL[DAW]...

MASARAP!!!

PERIOD!!!

MIKEE, SECOND MOTION NAMAN DYAN OH:evil:

@jetzone
I AGREE!!!

pano naman po yung legal na kapareha or yung kinakasama? :? :crazy: ano yun reserba? diba pagiging selfish yun?

pano naman po yung legal na kapareha or yung kinakasama? :? :crazy: ano yun reserba? diba pagiging selfish yun?


huh?:eek: di ko ata getz...

legal na kapareha as in....???? [pakilawanag na lang]

Extramarital relationship? womanizing? white lies?
lie/cheat?

bakit kailangan pang magkaron ng ganon?
what if you're married or living w/ somebody special. would you tell him/her what you did?

tell me your thoughts/ideas/opinions?


-IMHO di naman kailangan un mga ganong bagay..pero siguro sometimes it just happens and before you would know the reason behind it you're already stucked on it..

-if i'm married or living with someone special i would still tell him about it, i believe he has the right to know..(that i'm womanizing!) :eek: :O

-IMHO di naman kailangan un mga ganong bagay..pero siguro sometimes it just happens and before you would know the reason behind it you're already stucked on it..

-if i'm married or living with someone special i would still tell him about it, i believe he has the right to know..(that i'm womanizing!) :eek: :O

Yse, she has the right know ang masakit na katutuhanan hahaha.... brutal naman po yata ma'am..;) ..Basta ako.. huwag aamin.. pag nahuli sasabihin kong ako'y lasing hehehe:O

Extramarital relationship? womanizing? white lies?
lie/cheat?

bakit kailangan pang magkaron ng ganon?
what if you're married or living w/ somebody special. would you tell him/her what you did?

tell me your thoughts/ideas/opinions?
Sir Ranma, meron po akong pinost na idea na pwdeng pong iugnay sa thread nyo.
ito po yung shortcut.
http://www.motorcyclephilippines.com/forums/showthread.php?t=62315&page=5
check out nyo na lang

-IMHO di naman kailangan un mga ganong bagay..pero siguro sometimes it just happens and before you would know the reason behind it you're already stucked on it..

-if i'm married or living with someone special i would still tell him about it, i believe he has the right to know..(that i'm womanizing!) :eek: :O

if ever, kelan mo naman sasabihin at ready ka na ba sa consequence?

if ever, kelan mo naman sasabihin at ready ka na ba sa consequence?

i'll tell him as soon as i have the chance to talk to him..mahirap kasi magtago diba lalo na kung mahal mo un partner mo...kung sakasakali man..i think i'll be strong enough to face the consequence..i have to face it with no regrets diba..the important thing is you feel love and be loved..:L

thrill lang. complications, hirap kasi pag tumatanda dumadami ang complications. Tsktsktsk...

i'll tell him as soon as i have the chance to talk to him..mahirap kasi magtago diba lalo na kung mahal mo un partner mo...kung sakasakali man..i think i'll be strong enough to face the consequence..i have to face it with no regrets diba..the important thing is you feel love and be loved..:L
Korek!.. yun po ang importante.. to love and be loved... hinde na po uso ang martir.. binabaril po yun sa Luneta:)

hehe parang ganto ba :g ..............:eek:

*welcome back po s'aladdin..nasan nga po pala si jasmin??:D

Salamat sa welcome ma'am.. si Jasmin po nasa bahay NAGLILIHI... hahahah:O

On topic: In extra marital relationship,, iwasan ang may MAGLILIHI hahahah:O

Extramarital relationship? womanizing? white lies?
lie/cheat?

bakit kailangan pang magkaron ng ganon?
what if you're married or living w/ somebody special. would you tell him/her what you did?

tell me your thoughts/ideas/opinions?


ga go yan pag sinabi nya!

hehehehe

OT
Now.. the day is almost over for me.. That was a good day although busy (Pero laging singit MCP) hehehe.. I have to go home now.. and let me say my babay farewell people.. Ma'am pinkkernel.. kayo na po muna ang relyebo ko kung di pa kayo uuwi hehehe.. babayuuuuu :*.. I love you people..

Sir Ranma, meron po akong pinost na idea na pwdeng pong iugnay sa thread nyo.
ito po yung shortcut.
http://www.motorcyclephilippines.com/forums/showthread.php?t=62315&page=5
check out nyo na lang

oo nga meron na tayong topic na ganito rin halos. :)

Maniwala na lang kayo sa Karma. :) :)

Manood kayo ng grey's anatomy.
Yun si Doc shepherd yun wife nya nagka affair sa bestfriend nya na si mark.
Pero nakilala nya si merideth na intern sa hospital na papasukan nya. at nag ka affair sila.
Pero dumating yun time na kailangan nya mag decide kung divorce nya yun wife nya at maging sila ni merideth.
Pero nanatili sa kanya na asawa pa rin nya ang sasamahan nya kahit nag kasala sa kanya. binigyan nya ng chance.
Di ko pa tapos eh sa dvd ko lang pinagpupuyatan he he he ..... as of now ganun pinili pa rin nya wife nya kahit nagkasala. Its up to the girl kung pagpapatuloy nya na mag behave.

i'll tell him as soon as i have the chance to talk to him..mahirap kasi magtago diba lalo na kung mahal mo un partner mo...kung sakasakali man..i think i'll be strong enough to face the consequence..i have to face it with no regrets diba..the important thing is you feel love and be loved..:L


if by doing that you know that you'll be loosing him forever will you still risk it? Sometimes secrets are needed to preserve a relationship to last you a lifetime. :)

Extramarital relationship? womanizing? white lies?
lie/cheat?

bakit kailangan pang magkaron ng ganon?
what if you're married or living w/ somebody special. would you tell him/her what you did?

tell me your thoughts/ideas/opinions?


Mali tlaga i2 in my opinion. Dme n nga problema s buhay tpos gagawa k p ng problema alam mo nman mahirap labasan. Pero sometimes d mo gus2 nddala k n rin s tukso dhil malungkot. May kulang o may wala cguro na ngdudulot ng kalungkutan. walang contentment, wlang satisfaction.

Mahirap nman aminin yun lalo n s part ng babae ksi iba lng cguro tlaga ang pagtanggap, pagiisip ng lalaki. Karamihan s lalaki d i2 matatanggap n ngkaroon ng third party ang asawa. most likely hiwalayan ang resulta nito. Pero meron din nman sobrang dakila ang pagmamahal katulad n lng s karaniwan ng mga babae n tatangapin ulit at susubukan ayusin. yung nga lng minsan pag ngawa n d n mhirap gawin ulit hehehheee... paktay tyo dyan. :D

@greentea: tama ka Karma Karma lang yan. Sana nga lang hindi yung mga taong pinakamahalaga sa kanila yung mabalingan ng bad karma nila, which happens most of the time. :evil: :clap:

here's a nice quote:
The thing people forget is how good it can feel when you finally set secrets free. Whether good or bad, at least they're out in the open. And once your secrets are out in the open, you don't have to hide behind them anymore. The problem with secrets is even when you think you're in control, you're not. - Meredith Grey (Grey's Anatomy)

:banana: :banana:

@greentea: tama ka Karma Karma lang yan. Sana nga lang hindi yung mga taong pinakamahalaga sa kanila yung mabalingan ng bad karma nila, which happens most of the time. :evil: :clap:



what if kaya ka na-involve sa ganyan is because un partner mo ang unang gumawa at ikaw un naging karma nya??? tsk tsk tsk :O

here's a nice quote:
The thing people forget is how good it can feel when you finally set secrets free. Whether good or bad, at least they're out in the open. And once your secrets are out in the open, you don't have to hide behind them anymore. The problem with secrets is even when you think you're in control, you're not. - Meredith Grey (Grey's Anatomy)

:banana: :banana:

depende po kasi sa tao yan at sa taong pagsasabihan mo..pero agree ako dito :D

white lie? why? are there black lies too, or blue lies, or yellow lies...a lie is a lie.

if you mean harmless...by referring to white lie...how can a lie be harmless...no matter how small the lie is...its still a lie, and there is no such thing as a harmless lie because things may escalate or balloon into a huge mess.

extra maritals - well...it happens, no matter how much we try to avoid it, we may be against it, dislike it, despise it...but its bound to happen.

womanizing - this, sad to say works both ways and there have been many cases now that the woman looks for other men...its commonplace already to have men womanizing...but women to "mananize" and maybe even women who womenize!!! :eek: or married men who look for other men :eek:

what if kaya ka na-involve sa ganyan is because un partner mo ang unang gumawa at ikaw un naging karma nya??? tsk tsk tsk :O

parang yung kanta yan e:
" I was wrong when i hurt you.
But did you have to hurt me too
Did you think revenge will make it better?
:* :*

...
womanizing - this, sad to say works both ways and there have been many cases now that the woman looks for other men...its commonplace already to have men womanizing...but women to "mananize" and maybe even women who womenize!!! :eek: or married men who look for other men :eek:
Sad to say.. these happen bro., looking 10 years back.., I believe the trend on these things are getting more of norm now rather than exception.. I even surprised myself to find this out..:eek: Quo Vadis Pinoy? Que Vadis Mother Earth?

parang yung kanta yan e:
" I was wrong when i hurt you.
do you have to hurt me too
do you think revenge would make it better"
:* :*

it's not revenge eh..kasi diba pag revenge puposely may gagawin ka to get even..diba karma will just happen..kaya nga karma eh :?

it's not revenge eh..kasi diba pag revenge puposely may gagawin ka to get even..diba karma will just happen..kaya nga karma eh :?
Agreed.. nag kataun lang na kumaliwa rin ng di sinasadya hahaha.. It make sense ma'am..:) (kaya nga karma)