1. When a girl says she's sad, but she isn't crying,
it means she's crying in her heart.(YAH!)

2. When she ignores you after you've done
something wrong, it's best to give her some time to
cool down before touching her heart with an
apology.

3. A girl can't find anything to hate about the guy
she loves (which is why it is so hard for her to 'get
over him' after the relationship's over.

4. If a girl loves a guy, he will always be on her
mind every minute of the day, even though she
flirts with other guys.

5. When the guy she likes smiles and stares deep
into her eyes, she will melt.

6. A girl likes to hear compliments, but usually not
sure how to react to them.

7. When a particular guy flirts with a girl very often,
a girl would start thinking the guy likes her. So if
you treat a girl just as a friend, go easy on the
smiles and stare ok?
8. If you don't like a girl who likes you, break it to
her gently.

9. If a girl starts avoiding you after you reject her,
leave her
alone for a while. If you still treat her as a friend,
talk to her.

10. Girls enjoy talking about what they feel. Music,
poetry, drawings
and writing are ways of expressing themselves
(which explains why
most girls like writing journals).

11. Never tell a girl that she is useless in anyway.

12. Being too serious can turn a girl off.

13. When the guy she likes calls her for the first
time, the girl may
act look uninterested during the call. But as soon
as the phone is
back on the hook, she will whoop with joy and
immediately start
telephoning her friends to spread the news.

14. A smile means a lot to a girl.

15. If you like a girl, try making friends with her
first. Let her
get to know you.

16. If a girl says she can't go out with you because
she has to
study, leave.

17. But if she still calls you or expect a call from
you, stay.

18. Don't try to guess a girl's feelings. Ask her.

19. Hearing the words "I love you" is a great
reassurance to a girl
that she is beautiful.

20. After a girl falls in love with a guy, she'll
wonder
why she
never noticed him before.

21. If you need tips on how to flirt with a girl, read
romance
stories.

22. When class pictures come out, a girl would
first check who is
standing next to her crush before actually looking
at herself.

23. A girl's ex-crush will always be in her memory,
but the guy she
loves now stays in her heart.

24. Girls love having fun!

25. A simple 'Hi' can brighten a girl's day.

26. A girl's best friends usually know best what
she is feeling and
going through.

27. Girls hate it when a guy pays attention to them
just to get close
to their 'prettier' friend.

28. Love means devotion, caring and happiness to
a girl, in that
order.

29. Some girls care about looks, some care about
brains, but ALL
girls want a guy who will love and care for them.

30. Girls want nothing more than to feel loved.

31. Girls always hope that they can always remain
as friend with
their ex. But never know how !

13 signs of falling in love

13. When your on the phone with them late at night and they hang up
but you miss them already when it was just two minutes ago

12. You read their texts over and over again...

11. You walk really slow when you're with them...

10. You feel shy whenever you're with them...

9. When you think about them, your heart beats faster and faster...

8. You smile when you hear their voice...

7. When you look at them, you can't see the other people around
you... all you see is him/her...

6. You start listening to slow songs, while thinking of them...

5. They become ALL you think about...

4. You get high just from their scent...

3. You realize that you're always smiling to yourself when you think
about them...

2. You would do anything for them...

1. While reading this, there was one person on your mind the whole
time.....

Lemme get this straight...(akin lang to 'ah.... :D)


13. When you are on the phone with them late at night and they hang up
but you miss them already when it was just two minutes ago

--Probably...:D

12. You read their texts over and over again...

--Uh-huh...guilty. :L

11. You walk really slow when you're with them...

--You just want the moment to last... :)

10. You feel shy whenever you're with them...

--Just don't lose your composure...being shy is ok at first. You don't want to bore him, right?

9. When you think about them, your heart beats faster and faster...

--:D Heart murmur perhaps???

8. You smile when you hear their voice...

--Yeah...hehehehe...kung kasing galing ba naman syang kumanta tulad ni April Boy Regino....why not?!:O (Di ko kayang tanggapin...:D)

7. When you look at them, you can't see the other people around
you... all you see is him/her...

--Baka malabo lang mata ko???:eek:

6. You start listening to slow songs, while thinking of them...

--Music helps you reminisce the days you were with him...

5. They become ALL you think about...

--Not exactly....I need to work too you know. :O

4. You get high just from their scent...

--It smells like....uhmmm...Scent of a Man?or you swoon of his ungodly smell???:F

3. You realize that you're always smiling to yourself when you think
about them...

--Galing ng Mandaluyong...?Di kaya?:O

2. You would do anything for them...

--Not really...di ko kayang magbuhat ng timba punong-puno ng tubig noh?!:bouncy:

1. While reading this, there was one person on your mind the whole
time.....

--:L

Almost didn't post cause this is in the "For the Ladies" section. So I hope you ladies don't mind!!!

I would have to say that after 20 years of being with my wife I'm still guilty of all 13.

dami! hirap intindihin ng babae! #30 lang kaya ko

to sum it all... it depends who the girl is....not all girls are alike....

owww....that was soooo romantic steelhorse..... :-)

guilty as charge... your sentence is: your wife will love you forever:bouncy:

My comments are in red


4.If a girl loves a guy, he will always be on her mind every minute of the day, even though she flirts with other guys.

Just like wine, trying to taste if there's something better? hmmm.. I think same thing is true with the guys who flirts huh!

5. When the guy she likes smiles and stares deep into her eyes, she will melt.[/B]

c'mon! Be honest heheh. Yung iba kasi maka tanggal bra kung makatingin hihihi..

6. A girl likes to hear compliments, but usually not sure how to react to them.

I know someone who likes to hear compliments, and she knows how to react exactly!

7. When a particular guy flirts with a girl very often, a girl would start thinking the guy likes her. So if you treat a girl just as a friend, go easy on the smiles and stare ok?

Ok

10. Girls enjoy talking about what they feel. Music, poetry, drawings and writing are ways of expressing themselves (which explains why most girls like writing journals).

Very true, I'm not sure about drawing though

12. Being too serious can turn a girl off.

I guess so

13. When the guy she likes calls her for the first time, the girl may act look uninterested during the call. But as soon as the phone is back on the hook, she will whoop with joy and immediately start telephoning her friends to spread the news.

Is that true? hahaha

15. If you like a girl, try making friends with her first. Let her get to know you.

Of course!

18. Don't try to guess a girl's feelings. Ask her.

I do ask

19. Hearing the words "I love you" is a great reassurance to a girl that she is beautiful.

It's a reassurance whether beautiful or not!

24. Girls love having fun!

I believe 100%

25. A simple 'Hi' can brighten a girl's day.

Yess!

28. Love means devotion, caring and happiness to a girl, in that order.

Say what?.. love means never having to say you're sorry...

29. Some girls care about looks, some care about brains, but ALL girls want a guy who will love and care for them.

Most girls prefer looks and brain hehehe

31. Girls always hope that they can always remain as friend with
their ex. But never know how !

Suuure!

1. When a girl says she's sad, but she isn't crying,
it means she's crying in her heart.(YAH!)

*sometimes...yes...

2. When she ignores you after you've done
something wrong, it's best to give her some time to
cool down before touching her heart with an
apology.

*right...but not that long...

3. A girl can't find anything to hate about the guy
she loves (which is why it is so hard for her to 'get
over him' after the relationship's over.

*true...unless...

4. If a girl loves a guy, he will always be on her
mind every minute of the day, even though she
flirts with other guys.

*not very minute I believe...

5. When the guy she likes smiles and stares deep
into her eyes, she will melt.

*but of course...who wouldn't?

6. A girl likes to hear compliments, but usually not
sure how to react to them.

*not really...bola lang yan...

7. When a particular guy flirts with a girl very often,
a girl would start thinking the guy likes her. So if
you treat a girl just as a friend, go easy on the
smiles and stare ok?

*hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.......

8. If you don't like a girl who likes you, break it to
her gently.

*like how???

9. If a girl starts avoiding you after you reject her,
leave her alone for a while. If you still treat her as a friend,
talk to her.

*uhmmm....yeah?...uhmm...ok...

10. Girls enjoy talking about what they feel. Music,
poetry, drawings and writing are ways of expressing themselves
(which explains why most girls like writing journals).

*really?

11. Never tell a girl that she is useless in anyway.

*you still want to see the day, right?

12. Being too serious can turn a girl off.

*another hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm...

13. When the guy she likes calls her for the first
time, the girl may act look uninterested during the call. But as soon
as the phone is back on the hook, she will whoop with joy and
immediately start telephoning her friends to spread the news.

*i don't know about whooping with joy...

14. A smile means a lot to a girl.

*ten thousand lifetime...

15. If you like a girl, try making friends with her
first. Let her get to know you.

*oh yeah?

16. If a girl says she can't go out with you because
she has to study, leave.

*period.

17. But if she still calls you or expect a call from
you, stay.

*go on...continue please....

18. Don't try to guess a girl's feelings. Ask her.

*don't go around the bush.....

19. Hearing the words "I love you" is a great
reassurance to a girl that she is beautiful.

*really now...don't pull my leg...

20. After a girl falls in love with a guy, she'll
wonder why she never noticed him before.

* :D

21. If you need tips on how to flirt with a girl, read
romance stories.

*just be yourself...

22. When class pictures come out, a girl would
first check who is standing next to her crush before actually looking
at herself.

*uhmmmm... maybe....maybe not....

23. A girl's ex-crush will always be in her memory,
but the guy she loves now stays in her heart.

*sigh...

24. Girls love having fun!

*sometimes...so are the guys...

25. A simple 'Hi' can brighten a girl's day.

*hello there...

26. A girl's best friends usually know best what
she is feeling and going through.

*ask her...

27. Girls hate it when a guy pays attention to them
just to get close to their 'prettier' friend.

*Don't call me in the middle of the night please...just to be a friend...

28. Love means devotion, caring and happiness to
a girl, in that order.

*another sigh...

29. Some girls care about looks, some care about
brains, but ALL girls want a guy who will love and care for them.

*brains then love and caring...

30. Girls want nothing more than to feel loved.

*sure thing...

31. Girls always hope that they can always remain
as friend with their ex. But never know how !

*duh?!


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Hay naku... ang hirap intindihin itong thread! sakit ulo ko. :rolleyes: heehee :D

dos n dont kun iniwan ka ng wife mo bringin up yours kids pa (inlaws problem) :{ :{

Have a heart to heart talk with your wife and tell her about the problem.

Lahat ay madadala sa magandang usapan.

And pray of course, the best yan.:clap:

sir kung iniwan kana hayaan muna! baka di talaga sya para sa iyo! and kung pabalikin mu man sya sa iyo! baka pag nagkaproblema ka uli sabihin sa iyo bakit mu pa kc ako pinabalik baka makagawa kalang nang pagsisihan mu hababg buhay! kaya let here go kung talagang mahal mu sya!

dos n dont kun iniwan ka ng wife mo bringin up yours kids pa (inlaws problem) :{ :{
we need to establish first kung anu-ano punot dulo...

hiwalay?[as in "....ang tanging solusyon lang ba ay hiwalay?"] bale wala na ba ang diplomasya?

-are there any other reasons why it would end up to this decision[aside from in -laws]

eg:
....3rd party perhaps?
....fight with money?
....incompatibility?
....vices?
....insensitive to one's needs?
....just fell out of love?
...."familiarity breeds contempt" syndrome?
....domestic violence?

-if the separation is imminent and this is the only solusyon, kaninong desisyon yun...kay wife lang? kay husband? both?

is this the 1st incident na nangyari ang hiwalayan?

pano napasok yung in laws? sino ang nakikialam? parents ng guy? parents ng wife?

bakit sila nakikialam...sino ang nagsusumbong? or sila mismo ang me napapapansin?
_________________________

" iniwan ka ng wife mo bringin up your kids pa..."

..so yung wife yung umalis at iniwan yung bata..

....how many kids?....and she can tolerate leaving her children? para kasing mahirap sa isang ina na basta basta na lang iiwan yung mga anak nya..

so anu arrangement after the wife left?

anu emotional predicament nung guy after this dilemma?

sensya na po,, daming tanong...[ and i hope it won't invade the persons privacy]

hirap kasi sagutin nung tanong without digging in where the problem lies.

kung in laws lang ang punot dulo....ehem...masyado naman atang malaki ang participation nila sa pamilya nung guy..parang lahat ng desisyon ng mag asawa eh kailangan pa ng blessing ng mga magulang...this happens kung me member ng magulang nila ang nakatira mismo sa bahay nila..

or rather...kung me problema yung wife or husband..one of them or both of them can't handle the problem and maybe me nagsusumbong isa sa kanila sa kanilang magulang...

and don't worry about bringing up your kids...they're still your kids right?

yung isa kong barkada, problema parents and relatives ng babae.. kasi kung makakuha naman ng pera parang bangko na ang ginagawa sa kanila.. wala ng tanong kung may pera o wala.. kahit sabihin nating pareho silang may trabaho wala rin daw silang naiipon.. kasi sa kakakuha ng parents at relatives ng babae..

minsan pa daw nanghihiram yung tita nya pang enroll ng mga bata eh walang wala na daw sila, tapos parang galit na daw yung tita nya na porket ganito ganyan na daw ang sinasabi..

dami nyang kwento sa akin about sa in-laws nya kaso masyadong mahaba kung kwento ko dito..

meron pa daw matindi.. na hospital yung asawa ng barkada ko kasi nakunan sya, pero wala naman sila kasalanan kasi hindi talaga nila alam ng buntis na pala.. lagi daw kasing negative ang test.. wala namang problema sa kanilang mag asawa.. siguro hindi talaga para sa kanila yun.. dinala daw sa hospital kasi nga dinugo na, at ni raspa (tama ba speeling?) first time pa naman daw nya sa hospital.. sobrang lakas daw talaga ng ulan at wala pang kuryente noong time na yun.. wala silang sasakyan so medyo nahirapan talaga sila.. alam na daw nila na sa hospital na yung anak nila kasi nakunan nga, tanong ng tanong daw kung ano na ang nangyari, text dito text doon daw.. hanggang sa nainis na daw tong barkada ko kasi less than an hour lang ang bahay nila going to hospital, eh wala naman daw silang ginagawa.. hindi naman na umuulan at malakas naman sila para magbyahe, akalain ba naman yung parents pa ng lalaki ang dumating agad eh 6hrs ang byahe galing pa ng province.. tapos noong palabas na daw sila hospital saka daw dumating parents ng babae, inantay antay pa daw nila.. tapos kung magsalita daw sila parang kasalanan pa daw nya.. gusto pa daw kunin yung anak nila at alagaan doon sa bahay nila.. hindi daw pumayag tong barkada ko..

i wud assume it was a one-way decision, kasi sabi mo iniwan ng wife, so meaning, hindi mo ginusto to, right? i wud say kung sa kanya ang diprensya, like na-inlove sa iba, or career advancement at ayaw ka na nyang makasama pa..move on! Remember that there's still your kids longing for your time and affection. Focus on one problem at a time. Concentrate first on being financially stable pra walang reason ang wife mo to get the kids from you.

Secondly, if the in-laws are getting in the way, be firm! Pero try to listen din naman sa opinion nila, kasi baka meron din silang magandang intentions for you and the kids...baka kaya lang negative ang dating nila kasi nga in-laws mo sila, parents ng wife mo na nang-iwan sau. Pero kung super kulit at hindi naman nakakatulong, wag mo nalng pansinin, and shower your kids with love and praises..kasi pag maganda relationship mo sa mga anak mo, hindi nila kayang i-sway ang minds nyang mga yan..

Now, if the problem naman is you..like you're not helping out financially, or baka naman me third party on ur part..or baka naman wife-beater ka (i hope NOT!), siguro kailangan mo ding mag-isip isip na and mend your ways. It's never too late, and God will always be around you.

One prayer i always say when i'm pushed against the wall is this:

"HELP ME TO REMEMBER LORD, THAT NOTHING'S GOING TO HAPPEN TODAY THAT YOU AND I CANNOT HANDLE TOGETHER!"

Prayers lang lagi,bro..it really helps...

sorry at di ko po na elavorate ng masyado un problema pan 'txt' ang dating
im not in the mood nun post ko ung tread the problem is this

My parents is acctually ang nag stablish ng buss nato (d ko na po sabihin) so hawak po namin un manpower togther w/ our elder brother n my 2 elder sister runnin smooth and find (kumikita) to put out some spaces elder sis ko decide to go on her on make her other branch with the same concept part din nan disisyon un husband nya sympre last for several years as they say carrer move then un sakin i put other branch under my wife name same vicinity nun buss, ng sister ko so 1st problema kagad insist nun sister :devil: bkt daw kami payagan so di rin nasunod un insist nya ok naman sa parent ko atleast will work in our on dba 1st ok yun wife ko sa parents ko Fairly masipag devoted un wife ko sa trabaho halos wala n nga time samin ng mga bata eh sya kasi tumatao to manage our on people running smooth kumikita di ko lan maisip bakit bukod sa lahat sya pa ang galit na galit ( my sister) to think na sister ko is mas malapit sa mother ko as i say paborito (selos)
hehehe so heres the big problem up to the point na joint force sila para kumpetensyahin kami wag kun pansinin dba kaso out to point na suppliers and common customer,client and worker eh nagkaka sulutan ( healthy competision) even in parents atensiyon ganun ka papansin so wife ko naiipit sa kagagawan nya out to the point na syempre idepend ko naman un mother ko sa wife ko all do aminado ako na may mali (mother ko eh) so mdisisyon nya is humiwaly nalng sakin na ayaw ko naman so insist kun wag dalhin ung mga kids para di sys umalis ok cguro namasyal lan or shopping spree sana hanggan dito nalan muna punta pa ko store promise to edit this for pag uwi ko

thank for suggestion and concern"

to summarize, meron kau family business, nagbranch out si ate, ikaw naman gusto mong makaron ng sariling income so nag branch out ka din.. unfortunately, malapit lang sa branch ni sister mo kaya nagkaroon kau ng competition...so tipong sibling rivalry na ang naging scenario, kasi bukod sa competition sa business, u are also competing with her for ur parents' attention. since nagkakaroon ng tension, naiipit na si wife kaya she decided to move out..tama ba ko??

IMHO, mukang meron kang konting wrong move dun sa decision mo to branch out na malapit lang sa business ng sister mo. Siempre kahit saang angulo mo tignan, parang kinukumpetensya mo talga sha pagdating sa customers, and you can never call it "healthy competition", no matter how u look at it. Dapat kasi Francis1, nagtutulungan ang family. Sa ginawa mo, siempre your sister wud do strategies din para naman hindi bumagsak ang negosyo nya at mawalan ng customers. My question is this: Bakit ka naman nagdecide to put up ur own business na malapit sa branch ng sister mo? WAla ka na bang ibang lugar na nakita, ung medyo malayo naman sa branch nya, para wlang competition?

Secondly, i cannot understand why ur wife wud decide to move out just because of this...hindi lang ako sure pero, nakatira ba kau sa parents mo? Kasi kung nakabukod ka naman ng haus, at dahil lang sa negosyo kaya meron tensyon..she has ur support naman dpat siguro she shud have held on, mabait ka nga kasi sa kanya mo pinangalan yung business eh.

What i can say is this: try to see where your sister is coming from, kung meron man shang konting inis sau, palagay ko meron reason so try to understand her. I can feel this is not just purely professional in nature pro personal as well..this competition between u and ur sister. But since pareho na naman kaung pamilyadong tao, try to set aside muna yung personal differences nyo, and focus ur concentration on making ur family intact and ur business to generate more income.

Same goes for the wife. Guess hindi na sha dapat makigulo pa at makisalo sa personal na problema nyo ng sister mo. Magkakaron talga ng business competition between her and ur sister's branches, kasi nga magkalapit lang. Hindi nyo ba naisipang ilipat ito sa mas malayo?

Parang feeling ko, mas maganda siguro kung mag act as bridge si wife para magkaayos kaung magkapatid and the rest of the family, but since this is not the scenario here, ikaw na lang ang magpa intindi sa kanya ng points ng kapatid mo. Baka kaya ka lang lalong nag-iinit eh dahil meron gumagatong..get what i mean?

Just think positive lang lagi...

sorry at di ko po na elavorate ng masyado un problema pan 'txt' ang dating
im not in the mood nun post ko ung tread the problem is this

My parents is acctually ang nag stablish ng buss nato (d ko na po sabihin) so hawak po namin un manpower togther w/ our elder brother n my 2 elder sister runnin smooth and find (kumikita) to put out some spaces elder sis ko decide to go on her on make her other branch with the same concept part din nan disisyon un husband nya sympre last for several years as they say carrer move then un sakin i put other branch under my wife name same vicinity nun buss, ng sister ko so 1st problema kagad insist nun sister :devil: bkt daw kami payagan so di rin nasunod un insist nya ok naman sa parent ko atleast will work in our on dba 1st ok yun wife ko sa parents ko Fairly masipag devoted un wife ko sa trabaho halos wala n nga time samin ng mga bata eh sya kasi tumatao to manage our on people running smooth kumikita di ko lan maisip bakit bukod sa lahat sya pa ang galit na galit ( my sister) to think na sister ko is mas malapit sa mother ko as i say paborito (selos)
hehehe so heres the big problem up to the point na joint force sila para kumpetensyahin kami wag kun pansinin dba kaso out to point na suppliers and common customer,client and worker eh nagkaka sulutan ( healthy competision) even in parents atensiyon ganun ka papansin so wife ko naiipit sa kagagawan nya out to the point na syempre idepend ko naman un mother ko sa wife ko all do aminado ako na may mali (mother ko eh) so mdisisyon nya is humiwaly nalng sakin na ayaw ko naman so insist kun wag dalhin ung mga kids para di sys umalis ok cguro namasyal lan or shopping spree sana hanggan dito nalan muna punta pa ko store promise to edit this for pag uwi ko

thank for suggestion and concern"

ang gulo...sensya na..txt speak kasi eh..

my first impression...

"in business, there's no permanent friends, only permanent interest"
"blood is thicker than water"

palagay ko...temporary lang yan...

hindi mahirap bigyan ng options para magkabalikan kayo ulit.

ikaw yung nasa gitna....all of you need to talk.[maybe later]

better kung pag usapan nyo maigi after that bumukod na lang kayo at least sariling desisyon, walang makikialam.. unless na lang kung ayaw ng wife or husband na lumayo sa family nya.. matagalang paliwanagan iyon..

buti na lang mabait ang biyenan ko.. hehehehehe

dos n dont kun iniwan ka ng wife mo bringin up yours kids pa (inlaws problem) :{ :{

Swerte ka pa nga eh,!!!! ako nga kinuha ng lahat ng pera ko hindi pa ko nilayasan eh!!!!:banana: :clap:

just get custody of your kids (para hindi kana mahirapan mag-isip kung kamusta na mga anak mo) then say adios to your wife.

ang gulo...sensya na..txt speak kasi eh..

my first impression...

"in business, there's no permanent friends, only permanent interest"
"blood is thicker than water"

palagay ko...temporary lang yan...

hindi mahirap bigyan ng options para magkabalikan kayo ulit.

ikaw yung nasa gitna....all of you need to talk.[maybe later]


thanks sa advice seriouly im hoping for a better out come(asa pa po)
'blood is ticker than water' hope magamot nalang ng panahon

my heartful gratitude
francis

Ako hiwalay sa una but i left everything with her...even my daughter...I miss my daughter so much...sigh

to summarize, meron kau family business, nagbranch out si ate, ikaw naman gusto mong makaron ng sariling income so nag branch out ka din.. unfortunately, malapit lang sa branch ni sister mo kaya nagkaroon kau ng competition...so tipong sibling rivalry na ang naging scenario, kasi bukod sa competition sa business, u are also competing with her for ur parents' attention. since nagkakaroon ng tension, naiipit na si wife kaya she decided to move out..tama ba ko??

IMHO, mukang meron kang konting wrong move dun sa decision mo to branch out na malapit lang sa business ng sister mo. Siempre kahit saang angulo mo tignan, parang kinukumpetensya mo talga sha pagdating sa customers, and you can never call it "healthy competition", no matter how u look at it. Dapat kasi Francis1, nagtutulungan ang family. Sa ginawa mo, siempre your sister wud do strategies din para naman hindi bumagsak ang negosyo nya at mawalan ng customers. My question is this: Bakit ka naman nagdecide to put up ur own business na malapit sa branch ng sister mo? WAla ka na bang ibang lugar na nakita, ung medyo malayo naman sa branch nya, para wlang competition?

Secondly, i cannot understand why ur wife wud decide to move out just because of this...hindi lang ako sure pero, nakatira ba kau sa parents mo? Kasi kung nakabukod ka naman ng haus, at dahil lang sa negosyo kaya meron tensyon..she has ur support naman dpat siguro she shud have held on, mabait ka nga kasi sa kanya mo pinangalan yung business eh.

What i can say is this: try to see where your sister is coming from, kung meron man shang konting inis sau, palagay ko meron reason so try to understand her. I can feel this is not just purely professional in nature pro personal as well..this competition between u and ur sister. But since pareho na naman kaung pamilyadong tao, try to set aside muna yung personal differences nyo, and focus ur concentration on making ur family intact and ur business to generate more income.

Same goes for the wife. Guess hindi na sha dapat makigulo pa at makisalo sa personal na problema nyo ng sister mo. Magkakaron talga ng business competition between her and ur sister's branches, kasi nga magkalapit lang. Hindi nyo ba naisipang ilipat ito sa mas malayo?

Parang feeling ko, mas maganda siguro kung mag act as bridge si wife para magkaayos kaung magkapatid and the rest of the family, but since this is not the scenario here, ikaw na lang ang magpa intindi sa kanya ng points ng kapatid mo. Baka kaya ka lang lalong nag-iinit eh dahil meron gumagatong..get what i mean?

Just think positive lang lagi...


acctually medyo malapit na yun summarization po ninyo ng scenario but may kulang guess thats my fault d ko po kasi kaya to set it details by details maliit napo cguro ang 1 week para matapos ko

you ask kung bakit ako nag decide na mag solo malapit pa kay ate acctually we all agree to put up another branch so yun ang bakante so yun ang kinuha me and parents share,(our parent as her permision ) so out po un sister ko runnin her own buss 1st ok den nagkaroon ng major problem to the point na mag totally close na un may problema is silang dalawa ng husband nya they can mentain un buss mas malaki expenses kesa in come so matic balik sya samin open hand tinangap ng parents namin sinalo pa po parents namin un atraso sa pwesto den pate narin sa mga suppliers acctually ok lang yun tlagang ganun cno pa tutulong so open na naman po un buss acctually mabait din po un parents namin share nalang po kami ng iba papo namin kapatid usapan po sosyo as in corporate ba tawag dun? out un parents namin kasi they have the main store .
problema is several months ok fare share kahit medyo lugi kami sa trabaho they act as ther the boss panganay po ba?next po mas mabigat ganun narin po ang magiging out come nun negosyo so reaction ko po is magin fare sila expenses wise medyo cross cut di rin po sila naniwala so medyo nag slow down un buss. think na d sasapat un kita sa life style nya she decided to work abroad so kami po ni misis and some of my kapatid with the help of our parents started all over again gaining profer income seasonal lan po tlga 2 years yata nag decide sya na dito na ulit sa pinas she claim na sa kanya parin un datin sa kanya so dun nag start un nag solo na kami.acctually nakapag branch narin kami ng dalawa pa meaning di narin ganun kabigat ung tension sa vicinity.Problema sa suppliers madalas :O

weres still living at our parents haus ? yeah totoo kaya cguro? lumalala yun tension 1st nag rent lan po kami ng appartment after our parent decided na pagawa un bahay namin to a 6th storey building na cguro floor by floor kami sama nun sister ko n her four kids acctually hiwalay napo sila nun husband nya ( 3rd party yata ) hindi rin po ako masaya at bat ganun nangyari sa kanila. dto bihira naman kami mag kita madalas nasa labas or salubong sa stair cguro.acctually may share naman lahat sa pinagawa.

heres the big deal my wife left coz she want to quit bigay nalan kay ate or rather say close na un store malpit sa sister ko para wala naraw problema syempre na ayaw ko naman we started dun kumbaga dun kami nagka ugat :O isa pa big lost din un argument bla bla bla na yun lan naman ang gustong i pin point.

I guess tama ka cguro may gumagatong problem is mahirap kalaban yan back figther un mga ganyan eh

thanks takin ur advice seriouly
my hartful gratitude
francis

me naman...am your typical OFW sad story...nag-abroad si lalake...lahat ng kinikita nya diretso sa pinas...pero si babae, gimik dito, gimik doon...nagkaroon ng "mga" flings....then eventually, tumitira na sa bahay na ako nagbabayad ng upa..."kapal noh? ako pa nagbabayad ng motel nila?"...to make the story short, nagkabukingan...umuwi ako ng pinas...walang ipon...walang trabaho...sira ang pamilya....i get my kids (3)...bumalik ako sa ermat ko...naghanap ulit ng work dito sa pinas to be with my kids...heto ako ngayon, am happy, tahimik...and everyday...i enjoy riding my MC!

sabi nga ni kris aquino..."when you're in pain...dwindle down with your pain....when you hit rock bottom....there's no way but up!"...may pag-asa habang may buhay....hehehe...pagna-lampasan mo na yan...mangingiti ka na lang kapag naalala mo....

me naman...am your typical OFW sad story...nag-abroad si lalake...lahat ng kinikita nya diretso sa pinas...pero si babae, gimik dito, gimik doon...nagkaroon ng "mga" flings....then eventually, tumitira na sa bahay na ako nagbabayad ng upa..."kapal noh? ako pa nagbabayad ng motel nila?"...to make the story short, nagkabukingan...umuwi ako ng pinas...walang ipon...walang trabaho...sira ang pamilya....i get my kids (3)...bumalik ako sa ermat ko...naghanap ulit ng work dito sa pinas to be with my kids...heto ako ngayon, am happy, tahimik...and everyday...i enjoy riding my MC!

sabi nga ni kris aquino..."when you're in pain...dwindle down with your pain....when you hit rock bottom....there's no way but up!"...may pag-asa habang may buhay....hehehe...pagna-lampasan mo na yan...mangingiti ka na lang kapag naalala mo....


sorry to hear your story sir but im glad buy know pag naalala mo abot tenga ngiti mo :O acctually my first option is to work abroad mukhang i rather go for my 2nd option medyo nakakadala un story mo but I trust her :banana:
ASA PA PO AKO kun d mag work i take nalan what tetay said :clap:

sorry to hear your story sir but im glad buy know pag naalala mo abot tenga ngiti mo :O acctually my first option is to work abroad mukhang i rather go for my 2nd option medyo nakakadala un story mo but I trust her :banana:
ASA PA PO AKO kun d mag work i take nalan what tetay said :clap:

ei!...don't be...hindi naman ang kapalaran ni pedro ay kapalaran ni juan....just make sure your learn of other's experience...life is too short para ma-experience pa natin yung na-experience ng iba before we learn from it....

respect, trust and open communication is the key to a long distance relationship....

ride safe everyone!

King Arthur and the Witch:

Young King Arthur was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of a neighboring kingdom. The monarch could have killed him but was moved by Arthur's youth and ideals. So, the monarch offered him his freedom, as long as he could answer a very difficult question. Arthur would have a year to figure out the answer and, if after a year, he still had no answer, he would be put to death.

The question?....What do women really want? Such a question would perplex even the most knowledgeable man, and to young Arthur, it seemed an impossible query. But, since it was better than death, he accepted
the monarch's proposition to have an answer by year's end.

He returned to his kingdom and began to poll everyone: the princess, the priests, the wise men and even the court jester. He spoke with everyone, but no one could give him a satisfactory answer.

Many people advised him to consult the old witch, for only she would have the answer.

But the price would be high; as the witch was famous throughout the
kingdom for the exorbitant prices she charged.

The last day of the year arrived and Arthur had no choice but to talk to the witch. She agreed to answer the question, but he would have to agree to her price first.

The old witch wanted to marry Sir Lancelot, the most noble of the Knights of the Round Table and Arthur's closest friend!

Young Arthur was horrified. She was hunchbacked and hideous, had only one tooth, smelled like sewage, made obscene noises, etc. He had never encountered such a repugnant creature in all his life.

He refused to force his friend to marry her and endure such a terrible burden; but Lancelot, learning of the proposal, spoke with Arthur.

He said nothing was too big of a sacrifice compared to Arthur's life and the preservation of the Round Table.

Hence, a wedding was proclaimed and the witch answered Arthur's question thus:

What a woman really wants, she answered....is to be in charge of her own life. :clap:

Everyone in the kingdom instantly knew that the witch had uttered a great truth and that Arthur's life would be spared.

And so it was, the neighboring monarch granted Arthur his freedom and Lancelot and the witch had a wonderful wedding.

The honeymoon hour approached and Lancelot, steeling himself for a horrific experience, entered the bedroom. But, what a sight awaited him. The most beautiful woman he had ever seen lay before him on the bed. The astounded Lancelot asked what had happened.

The beauty replied that since he had been so kind to her when she appeared as a witch, she would henceforth, be her horrible deformed self only half the time and the beautiful maiden the other half.

Which would he prefer? Beautiful during the day....or night?:nuts:

Lancelot pondered the predicament. During the day, a beautiful woman to show off to his friends, but at night, in the privacy of his castle, an old witch? Or, would he prefer having a hideous witch during the day, but by night, a beautiful woman for him to enjoy wondrous intimate moments?

What would YOU do?


What Lancelot chose is below. BUT....make YOUR choice before you scroll down below. OKAY?

Noble Lancelot said that he would allow HER to make the choice herself.:clap: :clap:

Upon hearing this, she announced that she would be beautiful all the time because he had respected her enough to let her be in charge of her own life.

Now....what is the moral to this story?

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The moral is.....
If you don't let a woman have her own way....
Things are going to get ugly!:evil: :evil:

The moral is.....
If you don't let a woman have her own way....
Things are going to get ugly!:evil: :evil:


True, but it could be both ways if you are ready for the consequences..:)

ei!...don't be...hindi naman ang kapalaran ni pedro ay kapalaran ni juan....just make sure your learn of other's experience...life is too short para ma-experience pa natin yung na-experience ng iba before we learn from it....

respect, trust and open communication is the key to a long distance relationship....

ride safe everyone!


ei.. yeah...sir thanks alot hehehe

ASA PA PO AKO kun d mag work i take nalan what tetay said :clap:[/quote]


don't worry it will work...usap usap lang kayo but buy some time first...and there wil be a time you will make a stand not on someone's interest but because you know it's the right thing to do.

by doing so..you'll be more wiser.:)

Hiwalay... been there, been that. hehehe. :O

Cheers!

K

ASA PA PO AKO kun d mag work i take nalan what tetay said :clap:

Reading your story made me sad....

I suggest, you focus your energy to something productive like sports or a new hobby. It helps when you're busy kase you'll be able to divert your attention to other things.What usually happens is that when you're not preoccupied your mind tends to think more about the pain and suffering you went through and you'll feel more pain. Thus, grief seemed multiplied.

This too shall pass and everything would be back to normal...

Godbless! :R

I just remember the joke "hiwalay na kung hiwalay".. Hiwalay daw ang puti sa mga de color kung maglalaba hehehe.. Smile bro., that's the best medicine.. it also increases your face value..

wow...if only all guys is like Lancelot...

The moral is.....
If you don't let a woman have her own way....
Things are going to get ugly!:evil: :evil:[/quote]


ako, i'll just find another woman where you can be in charge:evil: [mahirap maging under ha..tapos aswang pa yung bebot:evil: ]

wow nice story! extra lng si king arthur..hahahaha

hmmm... but letting a gurl do wat she wants? i can live with that, wat i cant is doing stupid mistakes over and over without learning about the consequences...

Reading your story made me sad....

I suggest, you focus your energy to something productive like sports or a new hobby. It helps when you're busy kase you'll be able to divert your attention to other things.What usually happens is that when you're not preoccupied your mind tends to think more about the pain and suffering you went through and you'll feel more pain. Thus, grief seemed multiplied.

This too shall pass and everything would be back to normal...

Godbless! :R


Thanks Maam I think tama focus in finding kun sino ipapalit :O (joke) but i miss my kids wahhh wahhh mas gusto sa mom nila ganun cguro ayaw ko naman i turture tngin ko mga bata talaga ung naapektohan or i say maaga pa cguro maka Move on sa situation.

yeah @ Alladin thats the best medicine thanks what about kun a couple of hours smiling then ended up cryin badtrip talaga para na nga kong maloloko

LAST POST NAPO ! Mdam moderator acctually i dicided to post this tread to get any advice best that i can get ganun po cguro kun depress ka and thers no such person na mahihingan ng payo acctually to all near friends and relatives pinkakikita ko na i can even nor bravely handle this situation or even hide this to them . PLS it is posible to delete this tread that i started tingin ko un privacy is lone done any way thats ok how i can i get good advice kun diko wsabihin yun problema and maam for the protection of my family narin po.

For all of those who post its means alot
MY heartful gratitude Francis

@Francis1,
May napundar ka naman pala. Much better. Ang mga anak mo di ba? Bakit ba tayo nag aasawa? To have kids. Still is a blessing. Count your blessings kaibigan. Swerte ka pa rin.

being married....hindi lng sa asawa mo ikaw may responsibility...higit sa lahat sa AMA..coz He's the one who created marriage...... leave it all ti HIM bro........cheer up... kow its not that easy, but for the sake of your kids ...be strong and be faithfull to God's promises na hindi nya tayo papabayaan..

Amen

Always make kampi sa wife mo.Dapat yun ang ginawa mo.

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...

A set of screwdrivers,
a cordless drill, and
a black lace bra..


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...


One friend who
always makes her laugh...
And one
who lets her cry...


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...


A good piece of furniture
not previously owned by
anyone else in her family...


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE

Eight matching plates,
wine glasses with stems,
and a recipe for a meal that will
make her guests feel honored.

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...

A set of screwdrivers,
a cordless drill, and
a black lace bra..

-i have a set of screwdrivers
-whats a cordless drill for?
-a black lace bra? hmmmm...hahahaha:D


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...


One friend who
always makes her laugh...
And one
who lets her cry...


-is this true? why?:O


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...


A good piece of furniture
not previously owned by
anyone else in her family...


-hmmm true...;)


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE

Eight matching plates,
wine glasses with stems,
and a recipe for a meal that will
make her guests feel honored.


-eight matching plates na corelle:L
-wine glasses with stems...for what?=b
-and a recipe for a meal that will make her guest feel honored...pwede bumili na lang? take out ba...:O



wheeeewww.......

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...

A set of screwdrivers,
a cordless drill, and
a black lace bra..

--set of screwdrivers?Oh, yes...malapit na akong maging mechanic sa lagay kong ito. :O
--a cordless drill...hmmm...ayt...para di ko na tawagin yung kapitbahay ko, cute niya pa naman. :O
--a black lace BRA??? hehehehe....of course! :O

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...


One friend who
always makes her laugh...
And one
who lets her cry...

--life won't be complete without these two buddies! :R

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...


A good piece of furniture
not previously owned by
anyone else in her family...

--sa payday...bili pa ako ng isang lazyboy! :O

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE

Eight matching plates,
wine glasses with stems,
and a recipe for a meal that will
make her guests feel honored.

--good idea! Don't forget a bottle of champagne just the same! :D ;)



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Thanks, bro! ;)

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Thanks, bro! ;)


OT.. Wala lang.. naiisip ko lang what if the topic is "What a woman should NOT have".. anu ano kaya yun hehehe:) (Siguro po ang dami)

A woman should have strong shoulders ...

They are perfect to lean on .. and cry on .. hello ladies!

A woman should have.. long patience to take care of all her babies.. her husband being the first.:nuts:

Good sense of humor .. para masarap kasama ..