kaforums dito po natin tuloy discussion o kung anu pa yan...
about FWB...
thanks...

original thread of sir freelancer, the....
sir adopt po namin thread nyo po....
thanks po...

yun oh.. game na ulit.. san na ba?.. hehe:D

up ko lang ito from previous thread.. originaly post by sir bacolodnon..

it wont be FWB if its one sided, both should benefit or else theyre not friend...

as for the preggy thing, as i say, rules should be laid down before starting the friendship...

and i dont think its FWB if one is attached, it will be like one is fooling the other. not FWB for me

important idea that is used by many people in friends with benefits relationships is to keep emotional ties low....
by doing this, the chance of hurting feelings is lowered.....

anu yun???
friends sa umaga..
lovers sa gabi???
hahahahhaha...

saka dapat maging responsable sa sa mga posibleng mangyayari...

anu yun???
friends sa umaga..
lovers sa gabi???
hahahahhaha...

saka dapat maging responsable sa sa mga posibleng mangyayari...

thats what im saying po mam. dapat po rules are lay down clearly before starting anything. consequences should be well-prepared. they will not be lovers, as long as no emotion of love is involve. they will stay friends.

ones attachment starts to show, in any of them, they must agree to stop doing the act to not further hurt anybody. IMO

this is getting interesting but i still have a book to read, will be back po tomorrow. good night mam

Friends w/ benefits does imply FUBU is the term correct :?

i'm new in this thread, pero i understand the context of this.

kwentuhan ko kyo based on what i saw and heard.

i worked as an OFW in taiwan, malungkot dun kahit madami pera lalo na kung me naiwan ka. dun ko nalaman totoo pala yung mga kwento ng OFW na mahirap magtiis. kung bakit yung iba, kahit matagal na di pa makaipon ng maayos, kasi ubos ang pera sa bisyo, like sugal at alak. ang pikaka matipid na alternative is to have a FWB,

ganito ang arrangement duon, pag sa taiwan sila, as in like husband and wife.
they comfort each other, remind mag ipon, and everything else na ginagawa ng mag asawa. sa boy ang hotel sa girl ang food. basta hati sila sa lahat ng gastos sa isat isa.

ano benifits? comfort caring and love, pang alis ng homesick. mas matipid sa sugal at alak.

pregnancy, is just an accident waiting to happen kung dika maingat

hindi lahat, pero nagyayari.

i'm new in this thread, pero i understand the context of this.

kwentuhan ko kyo based on what i saw and heard.

i worked as an OFW in taiwan, malungkot dun kahit madami pera lalo na kung me naiwan ka. dun ko nalaman totoo pala yung mga kwento ng OFW na mahirap magtiis. kung bakit yung iba, kahit matagal na di pa makaipon ng maayos, kasi ubos ang pera sa bisyo, like sugal at alak. ang pikaka matipid na alternative is to have a FWB,

ganito ang arrangement duon, pag sa taiwan sila, as in like husband and wife.
they comfort each other, remind mag ipon, and everything else na ginagawa ng mag asawa. sa boy ang hotel sa girl ang food. basta hati sila sa lahat ng gastos sa isat isa.

ano benifits? comfort caring and love, pang alis ng homesick. mas matipid sa sugal at alak.

pregnancy, is just an accident waiting to happen kung dika maingat

hindi lahat, pero nagyayari.

whoa! parang ang hirap naman nyuuunn...

FUBU tawag dun walang commitment, kase pareho silang commited sa ibang tao.paraho silang nageenjoy sa company ng isat isa, and ofcourse sa sex.

kaforums dito po natin tuloy discussion o kung anu pa yan...
about FWB...
thanks...

original thread of sir freelancer, the....
sir adopt po namin thread nyo po....
thanks po...

Thanks for making a continuation. (-:
Saw that it was getting hot in the previous part 1.

What sparked my thoughts right now is what esteban posted about being overseas and it made me realize na ganon nga siguro nangyare sa amin nung gf ko back in the US.

We started as just plain friends without the jer jer muna...going out, movies. eat out, gym, shoot at the range, race yaddi yaddi yadda

So there was a lot of spending..

Pero when the jer jer started..and i cant reckon how it started, she lived with me, we used just one car, we shared household bills, we no longer go out to spend money and rented movies instead..

It was a 6 month thing and LOVE was never mentioned even at the heat of the jer jer. (-:

I sometime called her at a different name..dunno if she heard me or she simply ignored it and had her full attention with the activity.

It was 6 months and YES after that the symptoms started to show wherein i was secretly inspecting her cp, freindster and email account..i get insecured when she mentions x bf's and i secretly get mad when she goes out on a date that i cant resent or show any type of jealousy.

Just when i was about to admit that im about to break the unspoken understanding, i was deployed again. (-;

To make this short and as esteban posted, the benefits where comfort caring and love, pang alis ng homesick.

Which reminds me of that girl tuloy...musta na kaya siya?..Ahhhh!!! SYMPTOMS SYMPTOMS!!!

eh eh eh!!!

FUBU tawag dun walang commitment, kase pareho silang commited sa ibang tao.paraho silang nageenjoy sa company ng isat isa, and ofcourse sa sex.

Di lang naman sa sex..sex its just part of the benefit. (-;

Ohhraahhh?

Di lang naman sa sex..sex its just part of the benefit. (-;

Ohhraahhh?
Yes sir.. sex is one of the benefits.. it's a part of it.. the MOST IMPORTANT part that is...:D

Musta na sir Albert?.. tagal mong di napasyal sir, napikot ka na ba?:O (jowk)

ang benefits dun e "SEX" pero hinde friends ang tawag sa kanila AFFAIR! ":evil:"

FUBU tawag dun walang commitment, kase pareho silang commited sa ibang tao.paraho silang nageenjoy sa company ng isat isa, and ofcourse sa sex.

yup.. basta enjoy sila at nagkakasundo sa ginagawa nila.. and of course alam nila gingawa nila.. wala siguro magiging problema.. and syempre ginagawa nila yun ng pareho nila ginugusto.. kaya pareho lang sila nagbebenefits..

ang benefits dun e "SEX" pero hinde friends ang tawag sa kanila AFFAIR! ":evil:"

yes, it will be an affair is the core ingridient is SEX and sometimes mistook it for love.

can you call it an affair if you know she/he is commited with someone else, and the same with you with a rule that there will be no demands, to leave each other's commitment. that only we are FWB because we like each other's company. maybe we can call it an affair, it doenst matter what other people calls it. as long you understand the risk, and you know your limits.

hays, this is one of the complication of love itself.

ang benefits dun e "SEX" pero hinde friends ang tawag sa kanila AFFAIR! ":evil:"

AFFAIR? Oohhraahhh baby!!! I like that term. (-;

But i thought affairs are extra curricular activities outside a relationship...


Yes sir.. sex is one of the benefits.. it's a part of it.. the MOST IMPORTANT part that is...:D

Musta na sir Albert?.. tagal mong di napasyal sir, napikot ka na ba?:O (jowk)

eh eh eh!!!

Im ok broham. Pikot? nangyare na before so never again! (-:

But yeah, sex is just one of the WONDERFULL benefits of the relationship.

as long as no one fall in love, there wont be complications...

How can u say na walang magiging conflict?and how can you say u will not fall in love?

How can u say na walang magiging conflict?and how can you say u will not fall in love?

yun po yung di natin masasabi.. pero gaya nga sabi ni sir bacolodnon, as soon as no one falls in love there will be no conflict.. kapag may nafall in love... ayun.. paktay na.. may conflict na for sure... di na yun FWB.. kasi yung 1 e may emotional feelings ng kasama...

How can u say na walang magiging conflict?and how can you say u will not fall in love?

as long as there is no attachment emotionally and no committment, there will be no demands, pressure, obligation, etc. no

as long as there is no attachment emotionally and no committment, there will be no demands, pressure, obligation, etc. no

yah.. i agree!!.....

Bigla ko lang naicip nga bro at ladies na rin, mas maige ba na yung FUBU o FWB eh more on the sexual side kesa naman sa financial side yung parang pineprahan ka lang at yung pera talaga nakikitan nung friend mo na benefit niya sa iyo di ba?

Bigla ko lang naicip nga bro at ladies na rin, mas maige ba na yung FUBU o FWB eh more on the sexual side kesa naman sa financial side yung parang pineprahan ka lang at yung pera talaga nakikitan nung friend mo na benefit niya sa iyo di ba?

yah mam.. tama ka.. pag ganun e parang binadayan mo service e.. di ba?:D

Gusto ko yung name mo:Dyah mam.. tama ka.. pag ganun e parang binadayan mo service e.. di ba?:D

FUBU = lust
lust applies with something that you already have but want more, for me FUBU is the term you use if a man & a woman (both commited) want to know how it feels to have sex with someone you know but you do not love. If you're doing it with the one you love, of course you will respect him/her, mahihiya ka magmoan masyado or matatakot ka mag explore pa, but if you're doing it with someone you knew.. lahat posible mo gawin..di ka mahihiya kasi di mo naman sya love.. hence, isa sa benefits ng FUBU is expressing yourself sexually or enjoying sex without inhibitions.

ano ba ibig sabihin ng FUBU? For us by us ba?

depende sa tao.. un iba FUBU means Fuc* Buddy

yah mam.. tama ka.. pag ganun e parang binadayan mo service e.. di ba?:D

ah ah ah!!

Service pala ha!!!

Pwde rin. Though ive to disagree coz if is considered service...ehhhh prostitution na po yan!!!

eh eh eh!!!

Gusto ko yung name mo:D

haha.. thanks po..:D

ah ah ah!!

Service pala ha!!!

Pwde rin. Though ive to disagree coz if is considered service...ehhhh prostitution na po yan!!!

eh eh eh!!!

oo nga noh?.. hehehe..

pero atlist kung yung sex benefits nila.. pareho lang sila makikinabang.. kung sa money na.. isa lang makikinabang dun... syempre yung humihingi lang... hehe

FUBU = lust
lust applies with something that you already have but want more, for me FUBU is the term you use if a man & a woman (both commited) want to know how it feels to have sex with someone you know but you do not love. If you're doing it with the one you love, of course you will respect him/her, mahihiya ka magmoan masyado or matatakot ka mag explore pa, but if you're doing it with someone you knew.. lahat posible mo gawin..di ka mahihiya kasi di mo naman sya love.. hence, isa sa benefits ng FUBU is expressing yourself sexually or enjoying sex without inhibitions.

wow...nice explanation sir... ayut... now it's clear..

So. Hows does this type of relationship usually start?

"matitiis and hapdi, ang kati ay hindi." :D

"matitiis and hapdi, ang kati ay hindi." :D

lalim ata nito...before my dirt mind starts to visualize things...ano po ba ibig sabihin nito?

So. Hows does this type of relationship usually start?

siguro sir, yung iba nagsstart sa dare!.. yung iba e sa biruan.. at yung iba e sa curiosity..


"matitiis and hapdi, ang kati ay hindi." :D

ayut... nice try sir...:O:D

lalim ata nito...before my dirt mind starts to visualize things...ano po ba ibig sabihin nito?


pag napaso ka ng yosi mahapdi di ba? pero kayang tiisin.

pag kinagat ka ng lamok/langgam makati, instinct kakamutin mo un.

classic example:

"you just broke up with your special someone, masakit, mahapdi pero kaya."

then you'll start to wander around and meet new people, make new friends, tapos maghahanap ka na ulit ng ibang sensation other than that of friendship pero hindi ka pa ready sa commitment.

so friends muna...... with benefit(s).

:O

imo lang

deym..just needed to vent out






the incident happened just this sunday..

It was after sunday mass,i was waiting for someone whom i should meet,(but didnt came)

i saw this old friend....

tpos nagyaya ng tara inom tayo..

then syempre ako..sige oks lng..

we had take note just 2 bottles (ako strong ice lng kasi mga momotor pa ako e,siya 2 stallion<red horse)

deym,i dont know if 2 bottles will make a girl tipsy considering na madalas siya uminom with friends..

then she suddenly kissed me!wtf :D

un lng hihihihihihihihi


share ko lng..hihihihihi

sana sunday ulit..wakakakak

deym..just needed to vent out






the incident happened just this sunday..

It was after sunday mass,i was waiting for someone whom i should meet,(but didnt came)

i saw this old friend....

tpos nagyaya ng tara inom tayo..

then syempre ako..sige oks lng..

we had take note just 2 bottles (ako strong ice lng kasi mga momotor pa ako e,siya 2 stallion<red horse)

deym,i dont know if 2 bottles will make a girl tipsy considering na madalas siya uminom with friends..

then she suddenly kissed me!wtf :D

un lng hihihihihihihihi


share ko lng..hihihihihi

sana sunday ulit..wakakakak


OT: Sir sama nyo kami minsan sa inuman session na yan....:D

Para di ot: Well, having friends with supervisors and pro management people sometimes have a good use.....:D

deym..just needed to vent out






the incident happened just this sunday..

It was after sunday mass,i was waiting for someone whom i should meet,(but didnt came)

i saw this old friend....

tpos nagyaya ng tara inom tayo..

then syempre ako..sige oks lng..

we had take note just 2 bottles (ako strong ice lng kasi mga momotor pa ako e,siya 2 stallion<red horse)

deym,i dont know if 2 bottles will make a girl tipsy considering na madalas siya uminom with friends..

then she suddenly kissed me!wtf :D

un lng hihihihihihihihi


share ko lng..hihihihihi

sana sunday ulit..wakakakak

eh eh eh!!!

Goodluck.

But i guess thats how some of this relationship starts.

what are friends are for diba....



sometimes, alcohol beings out the truth.....SOMETIMES

what are friends are for diba....



sometimes, alcohol beings out the truth.....SOMETIMES

Hehehe! I know what you mean. I had this experience once...a drunk friend brought out the truth...hehe! Thank God that I am a person of self-control! hehe! :D

eh eh eh!!!

Goodluck.

But i guess thats how some of this relationship starts.


un lng thing was hse has athang for me..way back pa..


kaso ngaubn di na pede wakakka

me kumander na e..wakakak

diba kakawawa gurl dito?????

diba kakawawa gurl dito?????

depende po sa kultura ma'am, sa Pinas yes, kasi bina-value pa natin ang puri...

sa ibang bansa, different story po....

diba kakawawa gurl dito?????

parehas lang yan mama depende nalang sa sistema:L

One of my simple rule is to get out 1/2 an hour after you've done it. No spooning or staying over nite. She got what she need and you got yours too. No need to stay so that nothing will develop. If you got game thats no problem, but if you don't. then your in trouble...:C

ito ang di ko magets sa situation na ito....
why doing such thing if there is no love between two pipol.............

panu kung di inaasahang mapregy yung gurl???
hays.....

ito ang di ko magets sa situation na ito....
why doing such thing if there is no love between two pipol.............

panu kung di inaasahang mapregy yung gurl???
hays.....

yon ang tinatawag na panandaliang ligaya:O

ito ang di ko magets sa situation na ito....
why doing such thing if there is no love between two pipol.............

panu kung di inaasahang mapregy yung gurl???
hays.....

We all have needs, betcha that you'll jump into bed with some good looking celeb if the chance comes up..;)
Mapregy? do you mean pregnant? If thats the case use protection, helps control the population, unwanted pregnancy and child support..:C
The last one(CS) had me living in my car for awhile cuz I was paying $630 a month, thank god thats over:banana:, now I go out and play...:evil: with a few of my Friends with Benefits...:C