sino pipiliin mo yung bago mo na nagmamahal sayo o yung dati mo na mahal mo?wala lang survey lang

Hirap sagutin bro. Hehehehe

parang kanata to ah... "are you going to stay with the one who loves you... or are you going back to the one you love?"


i think it's easier to learn to love a person than to make a person love you. IMHO lang naman. :)

Hirap sagutin bro. Hehehehe

hirap ba hahahahaa wait natin sila sumagot makakatulong sayo to men . .yung mga sagot nila.

para sakin mas pipiliin ko na lang yung nagmamahal sakin . . .darating din time masusuklian ko yung pagmamahal nya kesa sa dati ko na mahal ko na alam kung gano ako kavalnerable at baka maya mag take advantage lang sa kahinaan ko bilang lalaki:eek:

salamat sir xzee jin

Thanks bro.Tama yung opinyon mo.

i know how hard it is to be in this kind of situation
because i experienced it once.
i chose the one i loved
over the 2nd girl that showed care and love for me. maybe because
during that time, i was still hoping to make things work out
between us(the 1st girl). when i told the 2nd girl about my decision, of course i felt bad when she cried. i never wanted to hurt her but what can i do, that's how i felt then. i told her na lang that she deserves someone better than me. a guy who can give back the love that she gives.
and so i thought i had the right decision... but unfortunately i didn't.
things didn't really work out between me and the first one...
and i think i regret that decision
i just thought, what if i had given myself a chance to learn to love that girl who
showed care and love for me?!

of course i have to choose the one who loves me.... i agree with zee it is easier to love than to be loved.

Yung bago...

Yung bago...

and why?naman

i know how hard it is to be in this kind of situation
because i experienced it once.
i chose the one i loved
over the 2nd girl that showed care and love for me. maybe because
during that time, i was still hoping to make things work out
between us(the 1st girl). when i told the 2nd girl about my decision, of course i felt bad when she cried. i never wanted to hurt her but what can i do, that's how i felt then. i told her na lang that she deserves someone better than me. a guy who can give back the love that she gives.
and so i thought i had the right decision... but unfortunately i didn't.
things didn't really work out between me and the first one...
and i think i regret that decision
i just thought, what if i had given myself a chance to learn to love that girl who
showed care and love for me?!


choosing that someone you really love involves the risk. if you chooses the one that loves you, which you hope to learn to love, do you think you really live a happy life?

id rather pursue the one i love and failed, than live with the person who loves me but i dont have any feelings for her.

ad rather be broke, than trapped.

Pag nakita ko na sincere yung dati, maaapreciate ko na din. But for now, im playing with fire. Me shock pa sa nangyari. Kami ulit pero di pa ako seryoso. Me others pa din ako.

para sakin mas pipiliin ko na lang yung nagmamahal sakin . . .darating din time masusuklian ko yung pagmamahal nya kesa sa dati ko na mahal ko na alam kung gano ako kavalnerable at baka maya mag take advantage lang sa kahinaan ko bilang lalaki:eek:


plus one ako dito.. :L:L:L:L

ok to ah..

share ko lng po sabi ng mga sis ko..hehe

ayon s knila, depende raw po un..most girls prefer guys who love them so much (ung real love tlg) kc daw mas secured sila dun.d ko lng sure kung security p din hnap ng mga girls ngaun..madali daw mahalin ang taong nagpapakita ng malinis n intention..(maybe its their instinc)..ang mga guys nmn ussually go for the girls n mahal nila...kaya nga daw tyo nanliligaw eh..(they're talking of good guys h,hindi manloloko..hehe) to express how we really love them..un po ang sabi nila..hehe

pero s mga manloloko at manloloka, wa epek to..as long as it feels/tastes good,go go go..

sino pipiliin mo yung bago mo na nagmamahal sayo o yung dati mo na mahal mo?wala lang survey lang

2centavos ko lang po…

Sa first scenario…

Staying with the “bago na nagmamahal sayo” … does sound very safe and secure. Quite an assurance of a heartache-free lovelife, huh. Or is it?

Hindi naman kaya unfair sa kanya if I stay around and just hope(or even wish) that someday soon I’ll wake up one morning and finally make a conscious decision (or kahit out of decency lang or worse, pity:rolleyes:) to love this person back? Hm, okay, maaari namang darating nga yung panahon na yun… eventually… perhaps… hopefully. Meanwhile, tanggap lang ng tanggap. Sounds effortless, isn’t it? So, does that mean I should just go on living in deceit just because it’s more “comfortable” and “safer” for me as I’m receiving love without any pressure of having to give it back? Quite a self-serving motive, don’t you think? (kawawa naman si “bago” :{)


On the other hand…

As long as the second scenario where you said “dati mo na mahal mo” means that the other person and myself were “both in love” at one point at naghiwalay lang with the possibility naman na magkakabalikan… in this case, dito na ako sa “dati ko na mahal ko”. I’d be more likely to feel that sense of bliss knowing that I’d be with the one I really love. Kahit na siguro winning my love back requires more work, more sacrifices or even challenges on my part, I’ll just look at the process as my 'quest' for a more fulfilling life. Because once the pursuit ends and the prize is won, I’ll most likely value/treasure this love with my “dati” way more than the one that was 'offered' to me by the “bagong” person. :L

ill say it again. id rather be broke if failed following the one i love, than staying with the person who loves me but im not happy.

Ung deserving..

ako yung bago. ung luma na try mo na eh, kya ka nga ngkabago kase di nag work out eh. otherwise kayu pa rin.

ako din.. Dun ako sa mahal ko.. martyr ako eh.. Kahit di ako mahal basta mahal ko dun ako...

ill say it again. id rather be broke if failed following the one i love, than staying with the person who loves me but im not happy.

Amen.. Ket kaya ganun noh?.. Badtrip.. Reality bites..

going back to my old love.. hmmmmm, possible to' if and when the heartaches have very long faded and the wounds have healed on both parties involved other wise it's another toss up.. ;)

but personally i've learned once trust has gone out the window, respect and love will follow..

after all i do believe that trust is the basis of a relationship.. ;)

at sa person who loves me will definetly be loved back in return.. :)

keep it coming guys salamat sa mga response

and why?naman

ako yung bago din:L



kasi ayaw ko 2nd hand wahahahaa:O jowk=b

sino pipiliin mo yung bago mo na nagmamahal sayo o yung dati mo na mahal mo?wala lang survey lang

pareho sila :D

sa bago na ako...

mahirap ibalik ang trust sa dati... kaya better let go!!!

baka lagi lang mag-aaway...:nuts:

hanap kna lang kasi ng bago saka mahal mo at mahal ka rin...iwan mo na yang dalawa...ang gulo kasi :D

For me, id rather choose the one i love..its hard to teach the heart whom to love bacause you are not forcing urself to love, it comes out naturally..that y its call "falling in-love" coz u didnt force urself to love..u just fall.

pareho sila :D

sabi ko na nga ba great lovers din to:D

I'll choose what my heart will command me. Maaaring bago if nainlove na din ako at nakita ko deserving, maaaring yung luma kung nakikita ko ang courage nya para makuha nya ulit ang trust ko at maipakita nya ang pagbabago. For now, kami ulit but my heart was still undecided. Humahanap pa ako ng sign para mahalin sya ulit.:?:?:?

hanap kna lang kasi ng bago saka mahal mo at mahal ka rin...iwan mo na yang dalawa...ang gulo kasi :D

Hmm.. oo nga naman.. at least naging fair ka sa kanilang dalawa..:D

ako siguro . . . .another option ko is il leave both of them and search for someone new. . or maghintay na lang ayaw ko kasi mataken for granted ayaw ko din magtake advantage. . (pero maganda din yung ke rahmon just take them both)

I'll choose what my heart will command me. Maaaring bago if nainlove na din ako at nakita ko deserving, maaaring yung luma kung nakikita ko ang courage nya para makuha nya ulit ang trust ko at maipakita nya ang pagbabago. For now, kami ulit but my heart was still undecided. Humahanap pa ako ng sign para mahalin sya ulit.:?:?:?

teka yung bang dati p ito sa kabilang thread? :eek:

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ano na nga ba naging ending nung thread na un?

I'll choose what my heart will command me. Maaaring bago if nainlove na din ako at nakita ko deserving, maaaring yung luma kung nakikita ko ang courage nya para makuha nya ulit ang trust ko at maipakita nya ang pagbabago. For now, kami ulit but my heart was still undecided. Humahanap pa ako ng sign para mahalin sya ulit.:?:?:?

ito ba yun continuation ng rambolan dun sa...ah este...


bro, gawan mo part 2 yung thread mo :D

Pa OT :
@Sampumpiso - Sir nakaharap na ung P10 sa Avatar mo ha..:clap: Does it mean ....... ???:)

ako siguro . . . .another option ko is il leave both of them and search for someone new. . or maghintay na lang ayaw ko kasi mataken for granted ayaw ko din magtake advantage. . (pero maganda din yung ke rahmon just take them both)

upfor this. pili ka lang dito :D

OT: Ang ending ng thread na yun kwento ko. Nadiskubre ko na me bf pala sya malapit sa place nila, at hindi pala tama ang pinagsususpetsahan kong mga tao.

Ako din mismo ang nakadiskubre, dahil nung nag away kami sa meycauayan habang kasama si marco, naglaglagan ang mga sim card nya at napulot ko. Dun ko tinuklas. Nalaman ko din ang totoo na ang gf ko ang me kasalanan. Nov 11 pa sila na.

Then puro away sa text ang nangyari. Minumura na nga ako eh. Nagkataon napakalakas ko sa ate at parents nya. Nagrequest ang ate nya ng picture ng bf nya na naibigay ko naman kasi inadd ako ng bf ng gf ko sa friendster account.

Dahil sinabi ko sa bf ng gf ko na pare punta ka sa friendster ko, primary picture ko December 24 magkasama kami sa picture. Nagpasalamat pa nga ang guy at nalaman nya kami pa daw nakipag on sa kanya.
Sabi ko, sya ang bahala magdecide sa aming dalawa. Sya ang pinili hindi ako. Gyera ulit

Pero nung nalaman ng mga ate nya at mom nya na ganun, nagalit sila sa guy kasi ako ang legal na bf, then me bf dun sa lugar sa kanila, frat member pa. I think sinugod nila yung guy. Then dumating ang point na gf ko na ang nanunuyo sa akin makipagbalikan. Nakipagbreak sya (or yung guy, hindi ko alam) then gusto na nya tapusin ang gulo.

Pumayag ako at kami na ulet, but hindi 100% ang nadarama ko sa kanya. Parang inoobserbahan ko pa din. At trust ay nawala na. Me others din ako now. Hinahanapan ko pa din sya ng katunayan as of now.

Bro baka wala nang part 2 yung thread na yun, pero gagawa ako ng aftermath thread nun pag naging maayos na ang sitwasyon ko. Still in the making pa.

@Craziem- yah sir nakamove on na ako, wala na akong nadaramang lungkot at selos now. Kaya hinarap ko na si ten peso bill

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ano na nga ba naging ending nung thread na un?

honga, update nman sir.. na curious kami e.. :D

honga, update nman sir.. na curious kami e.. :D
sir randie, nasa taas ng post mo yung answer hehehe. dun pumasok yung post.

@Sampumpiso - well congrats Sir.. Sana magtuloy tuloy pag move-on mo.. Wish you gud luck..

OT na tayo.. Back to topic.. Hmmm.. Mukhang para rin sayo tong thread na to Sir..;)

@Sampumpiso - well congrats Sir.. Sana magtuloy tuloy pag move-on mo.. Wish you gud luck..

OT na tayo.. Back to topic.. Hmmm.. Mukhang para rin sayo tong thread na to Sir..;)

specially made para nga sa kanya hehehe

sir randie, nasa taas ng post mo yung answer hehehe. dun pumasok yung post.

hehe, nbasa ko npo sir.. btw at p O.T. nrin hirap ibalik ng tiwala sa ganyan sir lalo n slight ldr sitwasyon nyo..

wish you well on whatever surprise unfolds next.. :)

anyway on my personal opinion dito po pumapasok yung "sometimes love is just not enough" ;)

specially made para nga sa kanya hehehe

yep feeling ko rin sir may connection thread mo nto kay sir sampungpiso.. :rolleyes:

Sa tingin ko magkiss man kami ill resist pa din. Dami pa doubts eh for now.

Sa tingin ko magkiss man kami ill resist pa din. Dami pa doubts eh for now.

kalaban mo lang nyan sa sitwasyon mo nyan sir e yung doubt..

parang anino na hindi matakasan kc most if not all the time siyempre dumaddan sa isip mo kung mapagkakatiwalaan mo ba siya ulit o kung talaga bang good girl na siya ngayon.. :)

Time will tell nalang bro. Maybe a year na nakikita ko ayos na sya baka matanggap ko na.

Guys, it's either we go back to the topic or we'll close this thread for good? Your choice.


--Chinita

Sorry po mam

I think piliin ko pa din yung dati, pero it takes time talaga.

Guys, it's either we go back to the topic or we'll close this thread for good? Your choice.


--Chinita

pasensya npo ma'am..

anyway my choice is still going for the one who loves me.. ;)

Sensya napo.. Nadala lang sa Story..

Choice ko.. Ung Deserving..